Letting go of someone is one of the hardest things anyone could possibly go through, so why do we set ourselves up for these situations, and why do we hold on for so long. I'm one to believe that there HAS to be a good in everyone, somewhere...deep down...it's just there. But thoughts like that get you in trouble. Why do we love those who hurt us, yet hurt those who love us? Why is it that when break ups happen with our friends or loved ones we tell them "you're better off", "he/she's" an ass or wasn't right for you, or didn't treat you right. We give them every reason why breaking up is the best thing that could have ever happened to them. So why is it when it happens to us we come up with any excuse in the book why we're an "exception". Then, after someone has hurt us for so long, we can't seem to come to terms as to why the couple isn't together in the end. I don't understand how one person can give so much for so long while the other seems to care less and less as time goes on. & afterwards, we're still the idiots in the end who hold on. So why do we do this to ourselves?
I'm not anymore. You can only hold on to someone for so long before you realize that it's only holding you back in life. Instead of moving forward and living the life we're supposed to live, we seem to always put our lives on hold, waiting....and waiting...and waiting. Meanwhile, someone else has already moved on and continued on with their life, coming closer to what they want their lives to be, & what they want to do. So why don't we do that. I'm not waiting, no one should wait. Everything happens for a reason & life WILL go on. Things will get better, we just need to learn how to let go.
Letting go is becoming free again, not holding back for anyone, like it should be. Living the life that you want to life, with the people who truly mean the most, not those who just bring you down. Life is short, there is no time to hold back, we only have now. So let go & move forward. Things can only go up from here.
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