True Colors...

I've come to realize that no matter what, there are always going to be those people who come in and out of your life.  There will be people who think they know everything about you, and say they'd never hurt you...but in the end actions speak louder than words.  The people you need in life are those people who show you that they'll always be there, through thick and thin, better or worse.  Friendships are relationships, and they have a secret vow.  People change and life takes it crazy turns, but those who truly care and who truly want to be in your life will be there for you through it all. Those are the people who matter. :)

We all have had one person in our life who we thought we knew, we thought they'd always be there, yet when it came to the changes that you wanted to make in your own life to better yourself, they wanted nothing to do with it.  I can't stand people who "pretend" to care when it's convenient for them, people who want your undivided attention when something big happens in their life, whether it's good or bad.  However when it's time for yourself to be happy or time to vent it manages to go in one ear and out the other like yesterdays news.

Yes it's good to surround yourself with people, but who would you rather have next to you in the end?  A good small group of people who genuinely care...or a large group of  people who really don't know you at all, and care more about the attention you're giving them.  Personally, I'm all for the small group of good friends who actually care what I have to say or what I do.  It's not about how popular you are, or how much time people gloat about you.  I have the best friends and family because we all genuinely care & want to see each other happy....with whatever that brings. That's how it should be.  In the end you'll eventually see everyone's true colors.  The people in my life....well they're all kinda beautiful :)